Christian dating is he the one

It causes Christian singles to live in fear of marrying “the wrong one,” even when they are clearly making good decisions.Some of you may be ready to close this blog and never read it again. I’m basing my statements on a careful study of the Scriptures.I think God is telling me not to pursue a relationship any further. I know of people who did all the things you’ve mentioned but still ended up divorced/separated. I still believe God has chosen just one person for every Christian. As I’ve already said I just don’t see it in the Bible.

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In other words, I think the question is a bit misguided. I know many Christians believe God will choose a spouse for us.

But I believe this way of overspiritualized thinking wreaks havoc on the lives of Christian singles:1.

It causes them to be far too passive in looking for a spouse.

No need to search or do anything if God has already decided this for you.2.

Let’s look at 1st Corinthians 7:“But if a man thinks that he’s treating his fiance improperly and will inevitably give in to his passion, let him marry her as he wishes. But if he has decided firmly not to marry and there is no urgency and he can control his passion, he does well not to marry.” -1st Corinthians Notice something here: the decision of whether or not to marry and the decision of who to marry are left up to the reader.